Attune
Relationship intelligence for two
Understand your patterns.
Understand your patterns.Heal your cycles. Grow together or grow wiser alone.
Most people repeat the same relationship mistakes for years.
Most people repeat the same relationship mistakes for years.Not because they're broken — because they're flying blind. Nobody gets objective data about their own relationship. Memory keeps the worst moments and loses the rest. Advice is written for everyone, which means it's written for no one. So the same fight comes back, wearing different clothes.
One love, one chat.
Attune isn't trying to replace your messenger. It's the chat for this one relationship — a space that exists because the relationship exists. One chat per couple, ever. When it ends, the chat seals. Every love gets one, and when it's over it becomes an artifact, not a weapon.
It reads quietly. It never takes sides.
While you simply live your relationship, Attune builds understanding in layers — and gives it back as clarity, never as judgment.
- 01
Pulse
A weekly snapshot across five dimensions of relationship health, always shown with an honest confidence indicator. No streaks. No guilt for a missed week.
- 02
Insights
Specific, sourced observations. The pattern is shared with both of you — your role in it stays private to you. “Your partner withdraws” is a sentence Attune cannot produce.
- 03
The monthly Verdict
A sourced summary of what the data shows: what's working, what deserves attention, one thing to try. Every claim cites its evidence. It never tells you whether to stay or go.
For the conversations that are hard to start.
- 01
Conflict Translator
Mid-argument, privately ask for help saying the hard thing without the blame. You see your original and the rewrite side by side and choose freely. The other person never knows it exists.
- 02
Games
This or That, Truth or Dare, and the 36 Questions — with answers hidden until you've both committed, so nobody performs. The fun that happens to be data.
- 03
Quizzes
Four self-knowledge instruments, each graded honestly by its own evidence quality. Attachment is the anchor. Love languages is our weakest tier — and we say so, and refuse to use it for matching.
A quiet net, for the moments that need one.
When language appears that may signal risk, only the person at risk is quietly offered resources — never the sender, never a notification that names why. A discreet exit hides the app for someone whose phone may be watched. Resources are local and always free. This is a best-effort net built from fixed rules rather than AI, and it cannot catch everything — we would rather say that plainly than promise safety we can't guarantee.
Because relationships change. And so do you.
Because relationships change, and so do you.
- 01
Personal
For anyone between relationships or waiting on a partner — private reflection, all four quizzes, your own patterns. A real product, not a waiting room.
- 02
Healing
A private, self-paced journey after a breakup. It never blames, never diagnoses your ex, never tells you to reconcile or move on. Nobody else learns it exists.
- 03
Dating
Earned through time and reflection, never unlocked by loneliness. Psychology before photos, no swiping, no match counts, and nobody ever learns they were passed over. The promise is a better first conversation — never a predicted outcome.
What Attune will never do.
What Attune will never do.These aren't guidelines we intend to keep. They're constraints built into the architecture, which is a harder thing to walk back.
- 01No streaks, badges, or leaderboards
- 02No couple scorecards or shared report cards
- 03No engagement-optimised notifications
- 04No swipe mechanics or “they liked you” queues
- 05No telling anyone what to decide about their own relationship
- 06No ads, ever
- 07No selling your data, and no training on it
- 08No friction engineered to stop you cancelling
FAQs
FAQsWho can see our chat?
Only the two of you. Attune is a private chat for exactly two people. We don't sell your data, and we don't train on it.
What happens to the chat if we break up?
It seals. Every couple gets one chat, ever, and when the relationship ends it becomes an artifact, not a weapon.
Will Attune tell us whether to stay together?
No. The monthly Verdict sums up what the data shows and suggests one thing to try, and every claim cites its evidence. It never tells you whether to stay or go.
Does my partner see everything Attune tells me?
Patterns are shared with both of you. Your own role in a pattern stays private to you.
Is Attune only for couples?
No. Personal mode is for anyone between relationships, Healing is a private journey after a breakup, and Dating is earned through time and reflection.
Is it safe to use if I'm worried about my partner?
Attune has a quiet safety net: resources are offered only to the person who may be at risk, and a discreet exit hides the app on a phone that may be watched. It's built from fixed rules, and it can't catch everything — we'd rather say that plainly than promise safety we can't guarantee.
When can I get Attune?
Attune is coming to iOS and Android. The store links go live when the apps ship.
Get Attune on iOS and Android.
Get Attune on iOS and Android.
